Sacred Dreams

If a man is truly into you you’ll never doubt that you’re his priority. Work, texting, friends, (his ex) – none of these things will make you feel like you’re second place. Women should trust their intuition on this.

There’s no such thing as ‘kind of into you’. A man connected to his purpose chooses a woman that creates support and synergy for what he’s doing with his life so that neither take a back seat to the other.

Dating is your opportunity to see what kind of confidence, leadership, focus and planning skills he’ll be bringing to the relationship. If he doesn’t know how to make you feel like the center of his world while you’re dating, he’ll do even less in a relationship.

Avoid the men who are looking for a woman who can soothe them. Leadership in a relationship means a man contacts you, plans the date, chooses a restaurant and takes care of the details. This is your litmus test, the one that tells you how much you’re going to be expected to handle for him if there’s a love connection.

If you don’t feel like the priority it means you’re not. Few men will tell you they’re not 100% into you and some will flat out lie in order to keep you around simply because they don’t want to be alone.

How do you know if he’s really serious or just a player with great game? His attention and affection doesn’t fade over time and it’s not contingent on him getting laid. Does he reach out and touch you unconsciously? Is he romantic and attentive without really thinking about it?

If you settle for a guy who settled for you until what he’s really looking for comes along you’re going to feel that every day you’re together and be listening to his excuses forever.

Men don’t need more rope, more chances or more understanding. If he’s into you, you won’t hear excuses because you’ll be swept off your feet every single day because nothing makes the man who loves you happier than seeing a smile on your face.

It’s easy to see the difference between the women in a relationship with a man who makes her his priority and those who aren’t. It’s not a fairy tale, it’s the possibility for every woman who waits for a man who doesn’t just say, “I love you” he shows it in everything he does.

If you’re with this kind of man, please comment and inspire those who are still looking not to settle.~

~Graham R White

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