Loving a Scorpio is anything but boring! They really are the best…if you know how to treasure them.
But it is really not an easy job. It takes a lot of time and patience but once you get it down it will be like nothing you’ve ever experienced! They are passionate, intense and full of great mystery; a Scorpio knows how to keep things exciting and their sexuality is nothing to be taken lightly.
The Scorpio is naturally empathetic and highly intuitive which makes them more sensitive to emotions that other star signs. They are dominating and headstrong, but in the end, they always follow their heart, making it easy for them to end up hurt if someone doesn’t follow their truest desires.
You also need to know this: when in a relationship with a Scorpio, get ready for a really wild experience. That said, you can expect an incredibly fun and awesome love life with a Scorpio. You will never get bored alongside one. Scorpio is the best entertainer because they usually know a lot of good jokes and won’t miss the chance to tell all of them.
So, if you find yourself trapped in their charm, this is what you need to know.
- Don’t Ever Try and Control Them
A person in Scorpio is usually independent and likes to enjoy their freedom. They may distance themselves if they feel they are being controlled.
- You can trust them completely
If you are in a relationship with a Scorpio, you are safe and secure! They are usually the most trustworthy and reliable people. (As long as #11 does not happen)
- They are Introverted
The extroverted introvert, a Scorpio loves to be the center of attention when at a vibrational high, yet will become reclusive once the energy is either attained or dispelled. They are naturally gifted at “small talk”, and they know how to be charming without letting outsiders see the real authentic part of them.
- They can be self-destructive
Scorpio rules over death and rebirth and therefore is natural at breaking down aspects of themselves in order to start over. From an outsider’s perspective, it will seem like self-inflicted abuse, but the Scorpio knows that it may take a meltdown in order to build themselves back up, and this time they will come out stronger than before.
- They are Funny
Scorpios have a blunt sense of humor which can be offensive to some and hilarious to others. If you are sensitive, you might end up rolling your eyes, being shocked or feeling hurt. Their sense of humor comes from a place of truth, so they enjoy witty, intelligent conversations—and when a topic arouses their funny bone, they are insightful jokers. Their humor is not likely to be light and slapstick—rather, they are quick-witted, dark, and prone to being acerbic and even sarcastic. Their intelligence and style of humor gives them the ability to see the irony in just about any topic they discuss with you.
- They Don’t Need A Partner
Something to understand is if you are in a Scorpio’s life they want you there. But don’t expect them to become dependent on you. They do not need you, but they might want you, and when they do (want you) it is forever – don’t let #11 come into play.
- You Are Not Quite Their Equal
Scorpio is extremely selective when choosing a mate, so they look for as close to perfect as they can get. Which means that they are looking to date themselves. You just can’t measure up to Scorpio’s image of themselves, but if they’ve chosen you, then you can bet that they think you’re almost perfect.
- They Tend to be Overthinkers
A Scorpio always hears what is behind spoke words, the “what’s not being said” is their domain and because of this, they can’t help but lean towards overthinking every aspect of their lives… and sometimes yours.
- Best Sex of Any Sun Sign
Not that the Scorpio is bragging, but it has been known that making love with a Scorpio will be the best sexual experience you have ever received. It is not that they are talented but the intense passion that is the Scorpio almost always comes out in the bedroom.
- Emotions Run High
As a water sign, Scorpio is prone to emotional extremeness. Whether it be high or low, the intensity of emotion can be overwhelming at times for Scorpio’s mate. Have a tissue at the ready when Scorpio has a breakdown.
- NEVER betray them
Scorpio is not known for forgiveness, quite the opposite actually, they are known for holding grudges. When you are disloyal to them expect a rage like you have never seen before. Suggestion – Don’t do it
- They are Highly Observant
Not much gets past the Scorpio, they are natural detectives, they will be on to you before you know you are even in the game. So if you are trying to be sneaky, you better be on your A-game.
- There is No Grey Area
Scorpio’s are black or white, yes or no. There is no maybe with a Scorpio which could be a good thing. You will never be in doubt. If they say no, good luck trying to change their minds. Chances are you won’t. Honesty will always be present in a Scorpio.